The streets I grew up on were loud, crowded and unforgiving. They also taught me four things about work that no classroom did.
By Dr. Abiodun Mustapha, 2026-08-22
People hear Oshodi and picture the noise. They are not wrong. It was loud, crowded and unforgiving, and for a long time it was the whole of my world.
But I did not only survive there. I learned there. Years later, sitting in rooms with executives and graduate students, I keep noticing that the most useful things I know about work I learned on those streets, long before I learned anything in a lecture hall.
In a crowded market, nobody owes you their attention. You get about ten seconds to show that you are worth stopping for. That is not a street rule. That is every job interview, every proposal, every first meeting with a client you have ever had.
Learn to say what you do and who it helps in one sentence a stranger understands. Most professionals I coach cannot do this, and it costs them opportunities they never even hear about.
In a tight community everyone knows who delivers and who makes excuses. There is no hiding, and no personal brand exercise can rescue a reputation for unreliability.
That has not changed at any level I have reached since. The rooms get bigger and the clothes get better, but you are still, always, the person who either does what he said or does not.
Turn every limitation into fuel. It is the only useful thing to do with it.
For years I waited for something to change from the outside. A helper. A break. An opportunity that would arrive and lift me out.
When I finally accepted that nobody was coming, it did not crush me. It freed me. If nobody is coming, then the only variable left is what I do, and that is the one variable I actually control.
There was nothing around me that suggested education would pay off. I kept going anyway, mostly on stubbornness and faith. Years later that stubbornness turned into a scholarship, then a career, then rooms I once could not have imagined standing in.
You will often be investing in a version of yourself that nothing in your environment confirms is coming. Do it anyway. The distance between where you are and where you are going is usually just time plus refusal to quit.
That is Oshodi, compressed into four lines. I have not needed a fifth.
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